Been Away and a Recommendation

You know, I believe in posting here, but I seem to let the days get by without doing a post. Sorry about being so negligent.

I need to, right from the start, recommend a book to read. The book The Infinite Game by Sinek is perhaps a masterpiece. It is the story about how business and everybody is thinking and acting short term and not long term. Businesses and Wall Street think about quarterly profits when they probably should be thinking about the long-term. Our tax codes drive us to support this thinking. The same with our political parties and government. Everything is about the short term, the next quarter, the next election, this session of congress, etc. The result is we are killing ourselves. I’ve so far read about 75% of the book but highly recommend it already. Every American should read this book and then use it to inform their thinking in the next election cycle.

So I ran in the Disney Wine & Dine 10K and Half Marathon Two Course Challenge last week. I never think of myself as a fast or very good runner which is probably what most runners think of themselves. However, I looked at the run results after the half and I ended up in the top 15% of the runners in my gender and age group which stunned me. Ok then, I’ll keep running and pressing on. I run another half marathon in 10 days in Tulsa.

Regarding the book above, there is mention of a group of oil rig guys getting together to spend time together and basically become more open with each other. The result of their time invested in this fashion is their rig became a high performing rig, with minimal downtime, high output, and low environmental impact. Their time together made them each realize that they all come to the workplace with issues, insecurities, and vulnerability but they mostly hide it behind tough guy personas. When they realized they all felt this way, their performance as a team dramatically improved. They began trusting each other.

I think we all think this. We aren’t good runners. We aren’t good teachers. We aren’t good friends. But really, we are doing the best we can and we are doing ok. And we can make a difference in the world around us and with the people around us. Even if in just one person.

Listen, just make a difference in one person’s life tomorrow. Be bold. Say Thanks. Say Hi. Hold the door open. Make a difference. The world needs more people making a difference.

Trust with my life…

pablo (15)I am watching Rogue One: A Star Wars Story tonight and there is a line in the movie that goes like:

You’ll need someone you can trust.

I would trust her with my life.

Here is the question. Who around you would you trust with your life?

In my case, there are more people around me that I would trust with my life than probably reasonable. Is that reasonable?

What about you?

Something to think about.

Trust & Fraud When Vulnerable

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When I was a kid, our Dentist called months after I had been in for a cleaning and told my parents that he had been reviewing old x-rays and noticed 1-2 cavities on my teeth that they had not spotted earlier.

Even back then as a kid, it struck me that he could just be making this up because he needed more money. But there is no way to test this without going to the expense of another doctor for more x-rays.

For some reason, I’ve always remembered this.

Just recently, another friend had age-related, routine, diagnostics done at a special medical center and was told there were concerns leading to more tests, a procedure and then more tests out into the future all at substantial expense but all leading to no serious issue found.  And then this person had two more friends have the same diagnostics, at the same place, leading to the similar results and test and again with no issue found.

We are so scared of the C word that we jump through every single hoop to test, evaluate, diagnose and re-test. Our fear of the C word is fully justified as we all have stories. However, that fear makes us very vulnerable to fraud, wasted time and money, possible harm from the tests themselves and then, of course, fake miracle cures.

I do not know the solution to this problem other than to ask around when needing professional help in any matter (doctor, accountant, lawyer, etc.), seek 2nd opinions on serious matters, and try to remain calm and wise in your decisions.

Regarding the Dentist, I vaguely recall that we didn’t stay with him much longer. Can’t even recall if we went back to have those ‘cavities’ filled. That same Dentist once was needing to remove a tooth in my mouth and he deadened the wrong side of the mouth and was about to start cutting before I stopped him.